Pillow for Headaches: How to Choose One for Your Sleep Position

A pillow for headaches keeps your neck in a neutral line. Match the height to how you sleep, compare 5 pillow types and learn when a headache needs a doctor.

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A pillow for headaches is a pillow that keeps your head and neck in a neutral line with your spine while you sleep. The right height depends on your sleep position. Side sleepers need a higher pillow, back sleepers a medium one and stomach sleepers a very thin one. A cervical pillow supports the natural curve of your neck. In a trial of side sleepers, latex pillows gave the most headache-free mornings and feather pillows the fewest. Tension headaches can be linked to how you hold your head and neck, so the right pillow may help. Morning headaches that keep coming back can also point to a sleep or mood problem.

Key takeaways

  • The best pillow for headaches keeps your neck level with your spine in your usual sleep position.
  • Side sleepers need a high pillow, back sleepers a medium one and stomach sleepers a very thin one.
  • In a trial of side sleepers, latex pillows gave the most headache-free mornings and feather pillows the fewest.
  • Frequent morning headaches can point to sleep apnea, insomnia or depression, so talk to your doctor.

What's the best pillow for tension headaches?

The best pillow for tension headaches keeps your neck parallel to the mattress in your sleep position, not bent up or down. For neck pain, the NHS advises a low, firm pillow that keeps your head level with your body.

Sleep position Pillow height Shape tip
Side High loft Higher under your neck than under your head
Back Mid loft, 3 to 5 inches thick A rounded pillow under your neck and a flatter one under your head
Stomach A very thin pillow Try to start the night on your side or back instead
Side and back (combination) Adjustable fill Add or remove fill until the height feels right

A firmer mattress needs a thicker pillow. A memory foam topper or pillow-top mattress needs a thinner one. Adjust the fill in small amounts and test each setup for 3 nights.

Can a pillow cause headaches?

A pillow can contribute to morning headaches when its height or fill leaves your neck bent or twisted overnight. A pillow that is too high or too stiff can cause morning pain and stiffness, Harvard Health says.

In a 2010 trial, 106 healthy side sleepers started testing 5 pillow types for 1 week each. On their own pillows, 19.6% reported waking headaches. If you also wake with a stiff neck, see our guide to neck pain from sleeping.

Which pillow type is best for headaches?

Latex pillows did best for waking headaches in the one trial that compared pillow types, and feather pillows did worst.

Pillow type Pros Cons
Latex Most headache-free mornings in the trial: 90.9%, vs 80.4% on people's own pillows. Sleeps cooler than memory foam. Costs more than many fills. May be too high for stomach sleepers.
Cervical (contour) Supports the curve of your neck. A Cleveland Clinic chiropractor says it works best for most people. Foam contour did no better than regular foam in the trial: 74.7% vs 73.4%.
Memory foam Conforms to your head and neck. Eases pressure points. Traps heat and can give off chemical odors.
Adjustable Add or remove fill to change the height. Suits combination sleepers. Takes trial and error.
Feather Conforms to your neck. Fewest headache-free mornings in the trial: 63.3%. Collapses over time.

Feather pillows raised the odds of a waking headache 2.4 times versus people's own pillows. The trial's authors concluded that latex pillows can be recommended over the other types for waking headache. The trial was small and not fully blinded.

A 2021 review of 35 studies found that rubber (latex) and spring pillows reduced neck pain and waking symptoms in people with chronic neck pain. In side-lying, pillow shape and height affected neck alignment more than material. Our guide on how to use a neck pillow shows which way a cervical pillow goes.

How often should you replace your pillow?

Most experts recommend replacing a pillow every 1 to 2 years, according to the Sleep Foundation.

Fill Replace every
Polyester 6 months to 2 years
Feather or down 1 to 3 years
Memory foam 2 to 3 years
Latex 2 to 4 years

Replace a pillow sooner if it sags or has lumps. A feather or down pillow that doesn't spring back after you fold it in half needs replacing. Waking with a sore neck is another sign.

Why is morning headache a red flag?

A morning headache can be a red flag because it can point to sleep apnea, insomnia or depression, not just your pillow. In a survey of 18,980 people, 7.6% (about 1 in 13) had chronic morning headaches. Morning headaches are also a common symptom of obstructive sleep apnea. See a doctor if you wake with headaches several times a week. Also see a doctor for a headache that happens only when you lie down or stand up.

Get medical help right away if your headache

  • comes on suddenly and is explosive, or is the worst you've ever had
  • comes with slurred speech, vision changes, trouble moving your arms or legs, loss of balance or confusion
  • comes with a fever, stiff neck, nausea and vomiting
  • follows a head injury
  • gets worse over 24 hours

Call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room for a sudden, explosive headache. Contact your doctor about new headaches, especially after age 50.

How to stop waking up with a headache

To stop waking up with a headache, match your pillow to how you sleep, protect your neck and limit pain relievers.

  1. Start the night on your side or back. These are the easiest positions on your neck, Harvard Health says.
  2. Keep your chin off your chest. Sleeping chin to chest can overstretch your neck.
  3. Limit pain relievers. Cleveland Clinic advises using them on no more than 10 days a month.
  4. Watch your posture by day. Better posture may help prevent tension headaches.

To ease a headache once it starts, see our guide to tension headache relief.

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This article is for general information and isn't medical advice. Talk to your doctor or a physical therapist before starting a new exercise routine, especially if you have an injury or a health condition.

FAQ

How do you tell if a headache is from your neck?

A headache from your neck (cervicogenic headache) hurts on one side and often starts at the base of your skull. It may get worse when you move your neck. It usually lacks the light sensitivity, sound sensitivity and nausea of a migraine. See our guides on neck pain at the base of the skull and whether neck pain can cause headaches.

Is it better to sleep without a pillow if you get headaches?

Sleeping without a pillow isn't better for most back and side sleepers. They may be more likely to get neck pain, stiffness and headaches. Stomach sleepers may benefit from going without a pillow. Read more on sleeping without a pillow.

Can a memory foam pillow cause headaches?

We found no study that links memory foam pillows to headaches. Memory foam can trap heat and give off chemical odors.

Can a pillow help migraines?

No study we found shows that a pillow prevents migraine attacks. The pillow trial above measured waking headaches in healthy side sleepers, not migraine. If your headaches come with nausea or sensitivity to light and sound, ask your doctor whether they are migraines.


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