How to Use a Neck Pillow on a Plane and in Bed

How to use a neck pillow: wear a travel pillow snug around your neck on trips, or sleep with a cervical pillow's curve under your neck. Steps and fit tips.

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To use a neck pillow, wrap a U-shaped travel pillow around your neck on trips, or sleep with your neck on a cervical pillow's curve. A travel pillow stops your head from dropping forward or to one side while you doze sitting up. Turn the thick part of a travel pillow under your chin if your head drops forward. In bed, a cervical pillow should be higher under your neck than under your head. Many cervical pillows use memory foam, which conforms to your head and neck.

Key takeaways

  • On a plane, wear a travel pillow snug around your neck and let it hold your head.
  • Turn the thick part under your chin if your head drops forward.
  • In bed, the raised curve of a cervical pillow goes under your neck: lower curve on your back, higher curve on your side.
  • See a doctor for numbness, tingling or weakness in your arm or hand, or pain after an injury.

How to use a neck pillow on a plane

To use a neck pillow on a plane, sit back, fit the travel pillow snugly around your neck and let it hold the weight of your head.

  1. Sit back first. Recline your seat if you can, with your lower back against the seat.
  2. Center the pillow on your shoulders. The travel pillow rests around your neck, not up behind your head.
  3. Fasten it snug, not tight. Loosen it if you feel pressure on your throat.
  4. Let your head rest. Relax your neck and let the pillow take the weight.

A window seat gives you a wall to lean on. In a middle or aisle seat, support under your chin matters most.

Does a travel pillow go in front or back?

A travel pillow goes where your head falls: keep the opening at the front if your head tips sideways, and turn it around if your head drops forward.

If your head... Wear the travel pillow Why it works
Tips to one side Opening at the front The pillow supports the sides of your neck
Drops forward Opening at the back, thick part under your chin The thick part holds your chin up
Gets pushed forward Lower on your shoulders A pillow too large behind the neck forces the head forward

How to use a cervical pillow

To use a cervical pillow, lie on your back or side with the raised curve under your neck and your head resting in the lower part. A cervical pillow (also sold as a contour pillow) is a sleep pillow shaped to support the natural curve of your neck.

If you sleep on your back

  1. Place the lower curve under your neck. The curve fills the gap between your neck and the mattress.
  2. Rest your head in the dip. Your neck gets support without being propped up.
  3. Add a pillow under your knees. Spine-health says this eases strain on your back.

If you sleep on your side

  1. Turn the pillow to the higher curve. Side sleepers need a thicker pillow than back sleepers.
  2. Keep your spine straight. The pillow should be higher under your neck than under your head.
  3. Put a pillow between your knees. Bent knees with a pillow between them keep your spine neutral.

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Which way does a cervical pillow go?

A cervical pillow goes with its raised curve under your neck, and you pick the lower or higher curve by sleep position.

Sleep position Which part to use
Back Lower curve: back sleepers need a lower pillow
Side Higher curve: side sleepers need a thicker pillow
Back and side A pillow with higher and lower areas
Stomach No neck pillow; a thin pillow or none

Stomach sleepers can read our guide to sleeping without a pillow.

How should your neck lay on a pillow?

Your neck should lie level with your spine and parallel to the mattress, with no bend forward or to one side. On your back, the pillow supports the natural inward curve of your neck. On your side, your head and neck stay in a straight line with your spine. Too many pillows over-flex the neck, says HSS pain specialist Harmandeep Singh, MD. More on neck pain from sleeping.

How do I tell if my pillow is causing neck pain?

Your pillow may be causing neck pain if you wake up with pain or stiffness you didn't have at bedtime.

  • Morning stiffness. A pillow that is too high or too stiff keeps your neck flexed overnight.
  • Your neck bends forward or sideways. Cleveland Clinic names this the most common pillow mistake.
  • A flattened pillow. Feather pillows collapse over time and need replacing about once a year.

If you get pain after sleeping, Cleveland Clinic advises trying another pillow. See our guide to neck pain relief at home for other options.

What is a red flag for neck pain?

Red flags for neck pain include numbness, tingling or weakness in your arm or hand, and pain that started after a fall, blow or injury.

See a doctor if

  • you have numbness, tingling or weakness in your arm or hand
  • your neck pain followed a fall, blow or injury
  • the pain wakes you at night or gets worse when you lie down
  • the pain hasn't improved after 1 week of self-care

Call 911 for a fever and headache with a neck so stiff you can't touch your chin to your chest. Here are more signs that neck pain needs a doctor.

How to use a neck roll pillow

To use a neck roll pillow, lie on your back with the roll under your neck and a soft, flat pillow under your head. You can also tuck a small neck roll inside the pillowcase of a flatter pillow.

How long does it take to get used to a cervical pillow?

No set time applies, but a new sleep setup can feel awkward and even uncomfortable at first, according to HSS. Pillows only work if you use them consistently, Dr. Singh adds. In one randomized trial, 36 adults with chronic neck pain slept on a semi-customized cervical pillow or a conventional pillow for 4 weeks. The cervical pillow group reported lower morning pain and lower neck disability scores.

This article is for general information and isn't medical advice. Talk to your doctor or a physical therapist before starting a new exercise routine, especially if you have an injury or a health condition.

FAQ

Is it okay to sleep with a neck pillow every night?

A cervical pillow can be used every night if it stays comfortable. A travel pillow is made for sleeping upright, and lying down on one can push your head to an awkward angle. A neck traction pillow is for short sessions, not a full night's sleep.

Does a cervical neck pillow actually work?

Cervical pillows may help some people, but the evidence is thin. A 2006 review of 5 studies found too little evidence to recommend them for neck pain, WebMD reports. In a 2018 trial of 22 people with cervical spondylosis, a latex pillow plus physiotherapy lowered neck disability more than physiotherapy alone. Pain scores didn't differ between the groups.

Can a neck pillow help with snoring?

A neck pillow isn't a snoring treatment. The NHS lists side sleeping as a way to reduce snoring. It suggests a special pillow or bed wedge to help you stay on your side.

Are there cervical pillow side effects?

A cervical pillow that is too high or too stiff can keep your neck flexed overnight and cause morning pain and stiffness. A pillow can feel comfortable at first and cause pain only after hours of sleep.


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